Posted: August 05th 2015
It’s a strange thing, but seems to happen
in all walks of life.
As you get more ‘successful’ some people
won’t like it.
I used to think it was nonsense.
But it’s true.
There will ALWAYS be ‘haters’.
TCSA has a few. Although our friends are
I have a few ‘haters’ personally, who would
LOVE to see me fail.
That’s pretty normal.
In fact, there would be haters even if we weren’t
Some people are actually walking about
HOPING to be offended by SOMETHING.
(Maybe with me, it's their reflection looking
back at them from my big bald, shiny head
They can’t help it.
So why let them stop me, you or your son?
Maybe he gets called names.
Maybe he is just ignored.
Maybe he is jumped on by others every time
he makes a mistake…
He needs to know…THAT stuff is all about
THEM, not him.
Something that is not often talked about, but
goes on all the time is…
When players step up to a higher level of
Football, it is competitive.
Not everyone will welcome your son with
Some will see him as a threat.
It happens a lot at Pro Academies.
Players come in and never quite manage to
‘get in the click;
Parents can be the same.
It’s just something you have to deal with
sometimes. Not everyone will celebrate
In fact, some will hate it. They’ll have no time
to hear your story of blood sweat and tears
that got you there.
No interest in how much you DESERVE what
you’ve got and the opportunity to have more.
Because they approach life with a SCARCITY
They believe there’s only so much LOVE and
happiness to go around.
So you can approach it with a Buddhist mindset
of rising above it…
Or you can use their doubts and criticism as
MOTIVATION. To prove them wrong.
“The best revenge is massive success”
It’s all fuel for the same fire.
Your son’s SUCCESS and happiness.
NOW one thing that very few ‘haters’ do is
actually do the things they need to do to be
successful. They are far too busy whining
and moaning about other people.
STEP 1 is…be HAPPY for the success of
others. You probably don’t know the whole
story of how they got it.
STEP 2 is surround yourself with successful
people who can help you get to where you
want to get to.
Ideally, it would be people who have a track
record of producing the kind of results you’re
STEP 3 join a group of like-minded people
who are on the same journey and believe
that your success can rub off on them and
That's what our Advanced Small Group
Training Groups are all about
PS - Tomorrow I'm gonna be talking about the narrow window
of opportunity your son has to get the most out of the game.
And how so many throw away their chance of doing what they
love... unnecessarily. And more importantly, what to do instead.